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I think you have heard it before, and it’s a totally opposite of ‘ignorance is bliss’. The subject is a powerful phrase because we as human will try to avoid being hurt as much as we can. And definitely when you don’t know , it will hurt you .

Just the other day when I was fined because of ‘I don’t know’. I parked my car at a place that I don’t know, what happened? I got a ticket..

Went to a new place, got into a bar, took a glance at a woman, and because of I don’t know, I got whacked..

So, what else that I don’t know will hurt? Plenty of them, so how do we handle the situation of I don’t know? .. Ask around, look at signs, better still study ahead before visit a certain place. Ask your friends, do anything to ‘know’ so that it won’t hurt you.

So, becareful when we use the term ‘Ignorance is bliss’ because ‘Not knowing hurts’

Well, I just listened to Jim Rohn CD just now, and what really triggered me to write this is when he was teaching the power of the words. And I really didn’t realised how good is it until Jim told many that the words can affect people if you got it wrong. But when you got it right, it works wonder.

Take a look of this example. If you see your spouse, or your son or daughter whom are in worry of something, trying to solve things, and imagine 2 phrases of sentence that made all the differences.

The 1st one is, if you ask them ‘ what’s wrong with you? ‘, so this words are powerful and it will affect their mood, what do you think they would respond? Surely, or mostly, they will say ‘Nothing’ or some other word that won’t resolve the problem.

But if the 2nd phrase is ‘ what’s troubling you? ‘ now, this is more power in the persuasion for them to tell you the problem. I think mostly, if you ask the right words with the right tone, they will tell you the problem and you can help them and things would go really well.

Such a simple idea from Jim, and it can make the whole world of a difference. Remember the right words with right tone, you can make a big difference.

P/S: the CD I was listened too is called Jim Rohn – The Weekend Seminar

Awhile ago, I was driving and listening to Jim Rohn, one of his seminar, and this is what really blow my mind. A story that I am going to teach my kids for their future financial independance. This is how it goes,
You give your kids the money for their expenses. Whether it’s daily or weekly, you have to let them manage. But you advise them to use it wisely.
In my old days, I got a daily expense of 50 cents during the first grade. Now probably be 1 bucks daily. So, you will need to advise your kid to spend only 70% of the money. If they listen, then it’s fine. But if they ask, then this action is important.
Jim Rohn gave a good advice. Bring the kids to the poor family place. Maybe they are under the bridge, on the streets, old houses by the railway.. wherever, just show them and tell them that this is what going to happen if you spend it all away.
I told myself, wow… what an incredible simple idea that works. I am going to use it for my kids financial future.
I thought to myself, if only my father or mother had told me way early in my childhood, I would probably be financial independent now. It’s late now, but just start now, late or not… we gotta start now. Practice this simple idea now, just spend only 70% of whatever your income is.
You can save the rest of it, throw it to mutual trust or whatever, let it grow. But most important, do some charity whether it is 10% or only 5%, it will make good for your gratification. You will be happier.

Today, while I was having tea with my friend Mr. Hong, I was sharing ideas on how to make additional profit on any business. And I told him about the idea I heard some time back when I had listened to a seminar and the speaker was talking about the gold and the showel.
I told him that, the idea came when a shopkeeper of a tool shop was basically having no business, not in the winter. So, he came out with an idea which really blow my mind.
He created a big news buzz about someone in town found the gold nuggets. And after the news broke into the town, everyone went to buy showels and related tools for mining and digging. His business exploded and the sales of the tools shot off the roof and the items in his shop was basically sold out in such a short period.
This story really inspires him and myself about looking for new opportunities to make more profits.
We also talk about many other ideas, and one of it was about the word ‘ Mr Hong is having tea with Mr Chong at Old Town Cafe in Kulai ‘ . I told him about the speed of my website for google to find the quote above. It will be indexed almost immediately after I posted the message. He was impressed but want to see it, thus I’m trying this out in this blog.