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These 2 days, I have been bothered by recent incident about my son and his request. I feel sad, because I unable to achieve what he is asking for. In the end, he accepted 2nd option.. which is ..

Yesterday, we went to Tesco Kulai. He is an ultraman fanatic. Actually both sons are also the same. They found some of their best ultraman favorites. Looking at the price tag, .. sorry I can’t afford it.. and I also know if I buy 1 surely my other son will want as well.

My eldest son, wanted 1 of the Ultraman figure, I look at the price tag , wow 30 bucks… for a small toy .. smaller than the size of my palm… both wanted the same thing,.. it will be 60 bucks.. and I know they treasure it for 1 or few days and it will ended up a broken figure. But that’s not the point,..

I scour for the cheaper version .. and found a 5 bucks figure and the size is bigger… but that’s not what he wanted. However, I was saying how nice the thing is and saying how big it is finally he accepted the 2nd option.

I don’t know.. I feel dejected by the incident.. I feel I can’t afford the 30 bucks version and I felt I am a failure. I hope this story can spur me to do more and earn more for my kids, as I don’t want to settle for 2nd best for my kids.

19
Dec

Everyone wants to be free, and fully in control of their life so that whatever happens they are protected and secured. I am going to talk about lies, and it’s effect on your freedom.
Everyone tells lies, some said they tell white lies, lies that will do good more than bad. But it’s based on the liar thinking. The other side might think the other way. Whatever it is, lies will lead to more lies. And it can really messy as it entangles and become so complicated that it ruins life.
I had lies before, and my life was always in constant fears. Fear of the lies being discovered. Fear of losing someone, fear of so many things. I would need to constantly thinking and trying to explain the lies which lead to another lies. So, I was so exhausted with telling lies.
In the end, it did not good, I lost one of the relationship because of this, and I do not want to lie anymore. Leading a good life without fear and without lies are just so wonderful. But sometimes, lies are inevitable, but we should keep it small and use it when appropriate.

04
Dec

Recently, I have watched an interview by Tony Robbins with money masters and Jeff Walker is one of them.
I have never realised that I was actually subscribing to his email list receiving his regular doses of internet marketing stuffs.
The guy is a genius. He started out humbly and he is now a multi-millionaire. He is definitely my mentor which I will follow in order to be successful in the internet world. And so are you.

If you really looking into a relationship, with no 2 persons think alike and we are our own universe, frictions are common. Some people make it to be too big a problem to handle when everydays life causing all kinds of frustrations and it affects our relationship with close one whether it’s our spouse or girlfriends.
Some are to the point of breakup or divorce. It’s not uncommon also that later we found out that we are regretting what we had done and feels like the relationship once we had are important to our life.
So how are we going to save this precious relationship? I recommend the below actions to be taken to salvage what might be the most important relationship in your life.

The Magic of Making Up

Hope it will bring you the happiness in your life.