Yesterday, I was like having a blackout. I can’t access to the internet and it’s so frustrating. I have enrolled to the best 3G wireless network in my country, but yet the signal was terrible. It was like how many bytes and not kilobytes per second… it’s really a nightmare.
I was preparing a quotation to one of my customer and I’m so determined to get it done that nothing going to stop me. I was trying to access to the internet from my home and I took half an hour without any success.
That’s not all, my kids was so irritating, needed me to do all kind of things when I was so pissed off.
Ok, I had enough, I was not able to send an email for an hour… I grab all my keys and wallet, dump my laptop into the car and rammed off. I was like driving my car with my laptop on and looking for good signal.
It was an aweful experience.
The thing was, I kept persisting and I know I will be successful. So I passed by this cafe where I had coffee before with my partners and my wifi connection is on.
Deary me, the one I paid for the service and yet did not give the satisfiable service yet someone else wifi network gave me the connection to the internet to send the quotation.
My frustration was beyond controllable level, but that’s life. Things appeared to be pretty simple, type a quotation after got all the data, and compile , and send to my customer via email. Yet, so many obstacles along the way.
I know the bigger my quotation is , the bigger is the obstacle is, but I know I must persist in order to be successful. And you should too.
Well, I have been asked after I had posted ‘The Secret’ subject. The question is, if by applying “The Secret’, why not all those who tried the method are successful.
The thing with if everyone is doing the thing that was claimed to be successful, then why not everyone is successful. Many people had tried and successful, but many more failed. So why some are successful and why most not successful.
Average people have the tendency to give up easily. Many have the evil side of them asking them to quit. Many also have a belief system that is weak, many do not have the patience, many are not persistent enough, many have bad influence by people surrounding them, and many more.
Like I have heard from a seminar, the success people have achieved are not so obvious. Sometimes in life, there are simply so many variables that mix together to become whatever outcome it will be, whether successful or not. That means it’s not easy to decode and backtrack to what you did right that yield the result.
Any factors in those variables will affect the result. So, it’s all boiled down to one thing. If you really want the ‘what do you want’ really intense enough, you will achieve it, no matter how many experiments you made, or how many different combination of variables you put in, eventually you will reach your goal just like what Thomas Edison did with his light bulb, just like founder of KFC, the founder of Fedex, Henry Ford and many more great people.
Sometimes, we as human really need to be pushed. If it’s pain that is ruling you, you will find a way out, just as if the pleasure is great enough, you will find a way to achieve it too.
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I mentioned about the secret and about what do you want in previous post. What exactly you want. It’s also called goals. But when people hear about goals, they got scared. It’s like a term that lead to the fear of failure. They link goal to some kind of tough work and pain. That’s why many don’t want to say goal. It’s ok as long as you know it is what you want.
Back to being linked to pain which is triggered by the tough work, and stressful situation. I heard Tony Robbins auido motivation CD, and he said our mind link certain things with pain and pleasure. Human is plain simple, the number one immediate action people will take is to avoid the pain. Stay away from the pain, then only if these are no more and issue, we will go for pleasure.
Before I embark into any future projects that going to earn money, I feel I need to get my foundation right. Many things happened in my past has become what I am today. My subconscious mind link certain things to pain or pleasure. I must get my association right, I must get my mental right before I can approach anything.
I know that, few qualities we must have in order to be really successful. The belief system is one of it. You must absolutely believe things that you are doing will work, and the ‘what you want’ target, you will achieve it. This will lead to the never say die attitude. And the whole thing has chain effects on each other, as you instill the persistent power, the passion, the drive, the motivation and many other positive energy.
Let me link all these to one single most powerful energy of the universe, the gravity. Imagine how powerful this energy that pull everything, even light cannot escape. I refer to the blackhole. If we develop our mental power into a blackhole, just imagine what you can achieve. You will achieve whatever you want.
Category: Motivation
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